The term ‘don’t play with my emotions’ is a very outdated term. The truth is, you are the only person in control of your emotions. No one can play with your emotions unless you decide to turn control of your emotions over to someone else. If you decide to do this consciously or sub-consciously then this is your mistake, so do not blame others for what you have done. Taking back your power in a relationship is the ability to control your emotions, not control the other person. When in a relationship, if you allow the other involved person to call their own shots and express who they are as a person you will find there are now two people involved in this relationship and there will be a feeling of greater respect between the two parties. A lot of people feel the way to a happy relationship is to control the other person. The jealousies and insecurities of controlling another person is a topic for another blog. The controlling person is fighting for the control of another person who they feel may leave them if they find someone else. If this is the case and the other person found someone else of greater interest, then that person was not right for them anyway. (Jealousy is always a feeling of inadequacy). The ability to take away the need to control another person will open up the relationship for both of you and give you the resolve to stay together and test the bonds that brought the two of you together originally. The fool heart is the one that does not want to test the water. This is bad for the relationship! If you are to withstand the test of time you will need to build on a solid understanding of the depth of your relationship and not the shallow pit that you could fall into and remain stuck there.

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