Personal Attention Out of Control?



Personal Attention Out of Control?

Placing my personal attention on my martial arts training and all the personal development workshops and seminars I have participated in, I have realized that the single most important ability someone can have is the power to control their personal attention. When you are not in control of your personal attention you allow others to be in control of your personal attention for you. Then it is no longer your attention; it is their attention. So your individuality becomes “on loan” to those people who are controlling your attention and using your attention to create their reality which leaves you feeling depleted and void of energy to do what you have to do in order to advance your life. So gaining control of your attention and creating your world the way you prefer should be of absolute importance to you.

Working for someone else creates a problem with your personal attention as well. You allow others to use your time, energy, and attention to create their world for them. That is why working for yourself is the best way to control your personal attention and prove to yourself what you are really worth! No one will pay you what you are really worth except you. If you are controlling your personal attention and acquiring new skills to make your self more valuable to other people then you can, in return make all the money that you desire. Or you can become a part of a turn key franchise operation that is already making the big money and you can join that ship and sky rocket to personal success.

In order for you to be happy you must start working on your life and not in your life!! This means that you need to start to create a life that allows you to place your time where you want it. You must be in charge in order to be happy with the exchange that you make for your time. You can begin to build your life in many ways but first you must begin by controlling where and what you place your attention on. When you have allotted your time for friends and family then you should decide how many hours a day you will place your personal attention on learning a skill that you can use to make a living off of. The simple truth of trading your personal attention for income should be decided by you and what you will charge for your worth.

If you are doing skill building work and increasing your value to others and helping them with their projects and being paid what you truly feel you are worth you will be happier in your project and more cooperative and willing to really get the job done. When you feel properly rewarded you naturally want to do better. I know when I worked for other martial art teachers and ran their schools I never felt as if I was being properly rewarded for all my expertise and hard work. When I opened my first school, I worked hard at it and was rewarded and enjoyed my career much more. The fact that I felt like I was working on my personal career and not a job made a huge difference as well. I felt as if I was in control of my destiny and that I did not have to worry about company layoffs or company mergers that may knock me out of my job or a demotion and pay cut. The joy of watching Creotology Personal Development change people lives has been of great rewards to me. When you see changes in people’s life and the rewards and loads of confidence they gain in the finding of their new skills is breathtaking at times and I would never allow another to take my personal attention from that.

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