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Self-Mastery through Personal Development
July 21, 2010 | 
Author Self-Mastery through Personal Development
In my thirty years of training in the Martial Arts and Personal Development, I have learned a few invaluable things about Self-Mastery. First you need to determine what self-mastery is to you and what does it mean to obtain it for yourself. When in the Martial Arts, there was a course laid out for us to follow in order to achieve the level of Black Belt and then onward to more and more rank, knowledge and wisdom. So we knew what we were trying to achieve through the process of our focus and the fruits of our labor.
I believe it to be completely necessary to have a planned lined of attack for what you are going to try and achieve self-mastery at. To this end, it is wise to take a few minutes, sit down and think about what you want to accomplish in a Personal Development Self-Mastery Training Course. Here are some ideas for you to explore and consider as a starting place for your Personal Development Self-Mastery course training.
Moral character: We all have areas in our moral character where we should take inventory, look at ourselves and make changes. Make your personal development course about what you can do to change an unwanted or undesirable characteristic or trait and change it to a characteristic you desire.
This will require taking a serious and hard core look at yourself. Have your friends and family help you with their point of view about where you could use improve your character and see if there is a running theme. If so, consider adapting that into your Personal Development Self-Mastery Training Course. Develop skills and self-management tools you do not have currently, but that you know if you did have them you know you would go further.
Also make sure that the self-mastery course is balanced. Meaning, make sure you try and excel in the physical, mental, spiritual, emotional, and business world. You do want to leave out any part of skills you need to advance yourself in all areas of your life including possibly shedding unwanted weight, gain muscle, increase your cardio, learn and use new words you did not previously know. Learn to control your attention, learn to be a better listener to others, learn about things that are good for conversation. Learn how things work. Learn new skills that will advance you at your job including how to make better relationships. The possibilities are endless. Design your personal development self-mastery course well and I will see you at the top of your game.
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Personal Development and Building Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is crucial for your personal success. Your self-esteem is linked to the way you will allow other to treat you daily. This treatment that you allow daily will greatly and profoundly effect the rest of your life. When you have great levels of self-confidence it will greatly and automatically effect your levels of self-resiliency. (Please see my blog posting on Self-Resiliency.)
Self-esteem training you receive from Personal Development Training can be done at home at work or anywhere. In fact , any good Personal Development Training should have a section about building confidence. There are so many things you can do to build your sense of worth I could write an entire book on the techniques themselves. But, there are some particular personal development techniques to help you build your solid and impenetrable self-esteem. First let’s start with some of my observations and studies when it comes to high self-esteem.
Traits of High Self-Esteem
The person of high self-esteem has great levels of self-confidence – they go together like peanut butter and jelly. These people display a high attitude of “I will achieve this” and when they say it you believe it because you can see and feel the conviction and belief in what they are doing. They have been through good Personal Development Training.
High self-regard is seen in the way they handle themselves and other people. People with high self worth have their act together and are organized and they do not break in the face of adversity daily. Personal Development training will foster the ability to keep improving themselves to the point they have flow in their lives.
They are planners and execute their plans. This is a big bonus to having self-esteem because if you believe you can achieve, you will act accordingly and planning is one of those acts of clarity and purpose. People with high self-esteem have great clarity and focus.
People with high self-esteem treat obstacles differently than those who do not have it. Obstacles are part of the course and will need to be dealt with accordingly. They look for the information to solve the obstacle instead of remaining stuck and fearful of the obstacle itself and what “might” happen.
The Psychological Behavior to Stop the Vicious Cycle of Low Self-Esteem
Stop blaming yourself when you make a mistake or fall short of a goal. You can own the fact that you did not complete the goal on time or that you made a mistake, but do not believe that you are a person of low results or can’t be trusted or that you fail at everything you do. Accept that there will be set backs and that you are a person who possess ample self-esteem and that you will continue to push through to the end until finished. This will re-wire your sub-conscious thoughts and beliefs about yourself. Personal Development Training will teach you that your beliefs and thoughts will create who you sub-consciously structure yourself to be. So be very careful not to make the mistake of putting yourself down when things go wrong (as they will do) you are not those setbacks, you are the solver of those setbacks.
Think of one thing that you believe yourself to not be good at or that you don’t do very well but need to or would really like to do. Make it small and allow yourself a reasonable amount of time to complete it or learn the skill you need to begin doing the thing properly. The more things you do right that you could not do before the more your confidence goes up. Remember, start small and work your way up!
Personal Development the Right Way!
It is an odd concept to me that you can go to a weekend seminar or workshop and think you can make a difference in your life of any real substantial gain. Change is a very big concept. Change? What type of change? How do I make the change? Why do I need the change? These are all big questions and even after they are answered, does not mean that change is guaranteed.
Personal Development should be a training course like the martial arts offer. I mean, if you had a class you had to come to once a week and some homework you had to do you would be more likely to stick to the plan you are attempting to implement into your life. This is especially true when you then take a test every thirty days to be sure you are learning the techniques, can perform them and that they are making a difference in your life. Creotology Personal Development has done this by fusing personal development and the martial arts together for you.
I know many people who have paid thousands of dollars to go to a weekend seminar or workshop and leave feeling empowered (I am going to take on the world and it will bend to my personal will) and ready to change their life come Monday morning, only to find themselves within a week or two right back at the same problems and obstacles wondering what went wrong. “My confidence is taking a hit right about this time, but I have to be strong and realize it is not my fault that my life is not changing, it is the fault of the system and approach I am using.”
I developed Creotology Personal Development to be a horse of a different color so to speak. It is a one-of-a-kind program that follows you every step of the way and stays with you until the change you want is made and you are using it in your daily life. We are here weekly for you and so are you, in turn, for us since the support groups helps immensely in terms of friends holding friends accountable.
So if you’re not getting the changes you want in your personal development course it is not your fault, it is the way the personal development course is designed that you are dealing with. Try the Creotology Personal Development Course – it is change you can see and feel every step of the way.
Personal Development and Some of the Primary Focus of Control!
Personal Development and Some of the Primary Focus of Control!
As the world becomes a more competitive place to live in, we are naturally trying for a edge in our life’s that will allow us and our children to evolve and thrive. Personal Development is not only about your growth as a person, but also about other people who are beginning to train and to become Personal Development Instructors.
A Personal Development Instructor is called a Creational Master in Creotology Personal Development. It is a good thing to be sure that the Personal Development Course or Instructor you take on is qualified with some type of training that shows they are able to truly excel in life and are capable of accomplishing things that are in alignment with what you want to create or they have accomplished something higher than what you want and now you are inspired by them to try and do the same. In other words, your Personal Development Instructor should stretch you towards being more than you imagined you could have ever become.
This is easier said than done. Most Personal Development Instructors are just repeating the same information from one book to the next. While the basics stay the same (as in any well established system) you need to look for Personal Development Instructors that are on the cutting edge of information and transformational mental techniques. It is also important they be evolving themselves and not just resting on their past achievements. They must be trying to evolve and grow as well.
Self-awareness is a primary tool that we as humans have developed and know that we are not our thoughts or actions. Many people get caught up in the idea that they are what they think and act upon. However, this is not true. Most peoples actions and thoughts are on a sub-conscious level and therefore they are not even in control of their thoughts and actions. That is why a good Personal Development Course or Instructor will give you training to become more of a deliberate and conscious creator in your life. To become more of a conscious creator in your life does involve training and action in your life. You will have to study and test things in your life to see if they are worth your time or not, but, isn’t your life worth it?
Self-awareness allows you to have a deep introspection of yourself and the ability to know if something is wrong or right for you. You learn to listen to yourself and not take things personally. When you fail at something you do not personalize it and lower your self-confidence by that event in your life. You learn that you can grow by your mistakes and failures and that you are more than you first thought yourself to be. A good Personal Development Instructor or Course will help you to easily see this and through your increasing self-awareness, you can become a larger more conscious persona and grow beyond your wildest dreams.
Personal Development and Self-Confidence
Hello, today we are going to talk about Self-Confidence and how to develop it. Many people make the mistake of thinking that they have no confidence about themselves. This is not true! Everyone has confidence in something and in most cases a lot of things. However, when we lack confidence in something we internalize it as if we lack confidence in all things. A good Personal Development Course or Instructor will teach you to identify what you lack confidence in and will help you build from there.
Personal Development Instructors should listen to your concerns and direct you to discovering where you are having your problems in life because of low confidence and provide you with the tools to create a master plan which you can effectively engage. Yes…I said engage. Confidence comes from being prepared and doing what you lack confidence in. Whatever you lack confidence in doing, make it a habit until it becomes a habit that you are very good at up to the point of becoming a natural response. Practice regardless of whether you feel good or not so good. The more you practice something correctly the better you become at it. You have the power to literally make it second nature to yourself. You will find that a good personal development course will highlight this type of training for you. Alternatively, you may need a more personal touch and find you prefer to deal directly with a Personal Development Instructor.
Another personal development technique that can be applied when needed and also practiced regularly is to think of someone with great self confidence and when you are faced with adversity, think of this person and ask yourself, “What would they do?” Then think of yourself as them and what they would do, and you can even imagine that you are them. This powerful technique is called modeling and is very potent. Another personal development technique to implement is when confidence is needed, stand or sit with your back straight and imagine in your mind that you are expanding and becoming larger than the person or situation that you have to tackle. This too is a powerful technique.
Do not become too rigid in your steps to gain confidence and how it has to be for you. A well laid out plan is great and you should have one in place to provide you an outlined structure to follow, but be flexible and ready to adapt as well. Being too rigid may make you clam up and not feel like being at your best because you feel to confined. Personal Development teaches you to make a plan and study what you need to know and then do it. Doing what you told yourself you would do instills confidence in you and makes you trust yourself. Start small and work your way up to larger things. You can instill confidence in others by giving them things to do and tell them that they are the perfect person for this assignment and then don’t follow up with them trust in them that they did it. Then find a smooth and non-aggressive way to follow up with them… no one else. You could say, “Bob, I know you took care of that assignment I gave you. Did you find it simple or challenging?”
Think of mistakes you make as learning lessons. Forget the notion you will do it right the first time. This sets you up for failure thinking. Remember, mistakes are part of the process in becoming more confident. Accept the mistake as a learning curve and move on. Do not give them another thought except for what you have to learn from it. Mistakes are great teachers nothing more. Personal Development and self-confidence go hand-in-hand together. Don’t allow yourself to ruin your confidence by not forgiving yourself for mistakes. Be kind to yourself and watch yourself grow with great confidence.
Personal Development and the Managing of Your Mind!
Personal Development and the Managing of Your Mind!
Personal Development is all about the managing of your mind. Learning to use your mind to produce the effect you want to have on something daily is the true course of personal mastery. Your state of mind and the actions you take daily are of paramount importance when it comes to achieving the life of your dreams. So the personal development training you take should condition the characteristics of your mind. It is also just as important to train the tools of your mind.
The characteristics of a Creotology Warrior or a VSP (Very Successful Person) is staying persistent to your goals and becoming a person of clear and precise actions and decision making ability. Also important is to look at and test information for its effectiveness while developing an iron clad sense of integrity and a sense of what is right for you. The personal development course you choose should teach you that beliefs are meant to be effective towards your cause, or how to alter them so they become aligned with your purpose. Don’t hold a belief just because of the stubbornness of your emotions. The belief either works for you, or it does not work, period.
The personal development course you are working with should allow you to manage and control your emotions and relieve you of the ineffective thinking traps so many of us fall into today. An example of a thinking trap is called a Portal of the Brain. This is where your attention becomes frozen in a particular time sequence of life and does not move from there. This makes you repeat the same behavior patterns daily and treating everyone (including yourself) as the same as every other day. This last sentence is a clear example of a thinking trap. You want to avoid this type of living because all you are doing is existing. Any personal development course should teach you about how to deal effectively with thinking traps. If not, get out of it quickly and find another course more comprehensive.
Personal Development is about your journey into your mind and the design you want for your life. In order to make the characteristics work for you the way you desire for them to is to have the mental tools trained that make them work every time. A good personal development course should awakening your personal will and train your personal attention to be able to hold a course of action until your desired result is achieved. Creating alignment in your life and finding more easy ways to do something will create less need for your personal will to be involved in the situation. This is of great importance because your personal will works in short determined situations. Not for long and drawn out situations with no real sense of ending and/or accomplishment. Managing the mind should be the real goal of any serious and complete personal development course.
Here are some basic skills that we teach in the Creotology Mental Black Belt Course:
1. Managing your energy and time.
2. Facing problems head on and how to break them down and deal with them effectively.
3. Treating yourself properly and fairly.
4. Becoming more creative and adaptive to any situation in your life.
5. Achieve change in your life the way you desire.
6. Change must be centered around real transformation.
5. Develop a high sense of cognitive thinking ability and engaging it to solve obstacles.
6. Building enormous self-confidence and self esteem.
7. Using the resiliency factor of your abilities as they matter greatly day by day.
8. Avoid thinking traps.
9. How to plan and strategize your future while not missing out on living in the moment.
10. How to deal with toxic people and the energy they try to pollute you with.
11. Learn to rid yourself of what does not matter and focus only on those things that do.
These are just a few things covered in the Mental Black Belt Course. We hope to see you in class learning to become a Mental Black Belt since we know it will transform your life the way it has all of ours that follow the Creotology Course of Actions.